looking for you (Manhattan, KS)

looking for you

Hello my name is Travis. Hope you are doing well. About me I m 41 raised in Manhattan area left for 10 years got to travel the world that was fun. Moved back 11 years ago to help family. Employed 10 years at same job. Just getting done with divorce. I m just a country man who likes outdoors. l like fishing camping hunting etc. I don t expect sex in fact I can t have sex until I get to know someone. No time table I just know it s better when both people get to know each other first. Then I can enjoy partner enjoying herself for a while. And yes sometimes that s the first Date. Sometimes that s the twenty date just depends on the relationship. Just figured get that one out of the way. Finding out a lot of women feel rejected when I say not right now. Don t think I m not a red blooded male. I still think about it just can t act on it till both parties are comfortable with each other. I believe relationships need to be comfortable and nice. I live in solutions when issues come up. I will admit anything on my side of street even when it s not the nice stuff. I value honesty too much would rather be honest than cool. at the same time if something is wrong I ll let you know. And expect to be heard and respected since I do the same. I know myself very well good and the interesting. I have been lonely lately not the needy stuff just would like someone to spend time with. By the way I m a hopelessly romantic kind of guy. I like picnics on the prairie or a boat ride down the river or watching stars during conversation. This is just who I am. Or just flowers for no reason. Kind of hard to do for me if there is just drama around me. I only do respect and honesty. I don t drink or do illegal drugs I do smoke cigarettes outside only though I m not a good man or a bad man just a man doing the best that I can. I think I m an ok guy. I am very loyal to a partner. I like to date one lady at a time. A date is meeting in real life. Not talking on phone. Or text. . Lots of crazy s out there will put partner s comfortability first. my messes ups in life I volunteered for. I have quite a bit of mileage behind me not into drama that isn t necessary. Not into secrets don t have any. Some things I would be embarrassed if on front page of paper but that s all not life ending stuff. Not much of a typist. I do better on phone or in real life. Whatever you are comfortable with though. Not looking for any more uncomfortable relationships. I like honesty. I do have female friends we talk about everything I m capable of that and sex or romance won t happen. Just know that we are incompatible that way I m ok with that. I don t judge just know what I can live with hard limits and soft ones both. I don t have any good pics but have a couple of ones camping so I ll send what I have. I know I m kind of old fashioned on some things as well. Just me is the only thing I can guarantee. I m a builder can build anything and fix anything that s my job at work. I m very busy from 8 am to 5 pm Monday through Friday I am also on call and have to variable shifts depending on project work stuff. . while I m at work I don t have much time to text or talk I m a maintenance worker so I don t take personal stuff on phone at work. I do work with kids and young adult to attempt to give them the opportunity to not make my mistakes. What am I looking for a lady that lives in or is in Manhattan area a lot. I don t do long distance relationships. . I don t mind if you drink as long as you don t have an issue with it meaning you don t get drunk constantly. You don t doing crazy incredibly stupid things or go to jail or hurt others feelings when you drink. Mainly looking for people who are real. Not people who want to fix me save me or want me to fix them or save them. I don t play the game. Someone who is open and honest I m a big boy I can take it. knows what she wants and is reasonable about her requests. Knows what she needs. is able to express those conversationally emotionally and physically in no uncertain terms. Only want volunteer no victims with us no taking hostages. Is willing to talk on phone meet in person in public be personal. Physically healthy a little extra pounds ok not a problem. wants to be wanted and wants me. If this sounds like someone you might like. Feel free to text or call me any time after regular work secdual. Usually don t go to bed till 11 pm but I might be up later you never know. 785-410-1167. Thank you for your time hope you have a great day.